Dating fellow worker
Either way, if you're going to do it, the best bet is to stay on your level, so to speak.Two quick anecdotes about this: a friend of mine was an intern at a law firm where she found herself attracted to her boss.Although you may not be in the same department, and you might not even have to interact on a daily basis, being in a relationship with a colleague means you don't really get the chance to miss each other.This can cause the excitement of your relationship to wear off quickly.It's obviously not always realistic to stop working together.If you're both heavily invested in your careers at the company you're at, it's not fair to ask one person to leave.
According to Rosemary Haefner, chief HR officer at Career Builder, "To avoid negative consequences at work, it's important to set ground rules within your relationship that help you stay professional in the office and keep your personal life private."According to a survey by Harris Poll, 24 percent of workers have had an affair with a coworker in which one person was married. And a total of 6 percent of people reported leaving a job because the relationship ended badly (that difference was gendered: 9 percent of women compared to 3 percent of men).
Starting a relationship with a coworker in a completely different department is the safest thing to do.
That said, most people are more attracted to those in a similar job (probably because they have similar challenges and more in common).
You're with them a good number of hours a day, and you tend to see them across circumstances -- both when they're succeeding and celebrating victories, and when they're having a hard time.
They "get" you in a way others don't, because they're familiar with the work (as well as the office politics).