Dating after widowhood
He followed the old-fashioned model that once a guy got excited, he became a sex friend.
Many of us older daters weren’t brought up with the idea of consent.
A key challenge when dating again is idealising our deceased partner and the relationship we had with them.
As the relationship ended because of a death, we can feel that it would never have otherwise ended.
Like me, we were taught to fear the uncontrollable male sex urge.
In middle-age, we believe that either you do or you don’t. But if we want to end whatever’s going on, we need to speak up.
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