Alpha male mentality dating
SOMEONE gets the alpha male to marry her, all right, but I can assure that she is not always happy with what she gets. Marrying an alpha male is essentially a monetary play for a woman.For at least a while they get big time care, shelter and lifestyle for themselves and their children. If it doesn’t work out they are “out of there” which means they get big $$$ which allow them to conduct the rest of their life as they like.
I was just plain happy — in a healthy, fun, nurturing, supportive relationship that had no obvious flaws apart from what was buzzing through my head: “I don’t have the FEELING I think I should have!
”Pat asked me: “Are you a career man or a man with a career?
” (This is one of those aphorisms.) I told her that my career was not just a job, but kind of a calling. She told me that, as a career man, since my job would come first, I could get married and be perfectly content, but I’d always be longing for more. Allen’s contention, essentially, was that if you’re an alpha male, your natural tendency is to put your needs first, to conquer, to dominate, to spread your seed, and to hope to not break too many hearts along the way. And in this regard, I realized, I’m not a pure alpha male.
I told her that I wasn’t sure that I felt what I was supposed to feel for the woman who I was considering proposing to.
I didn’t have that obsessive, breathless, “I must have you” sentiment.
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Hi Evan, This is a curiosity more than a dating advice question.